As a kid, I feared going against others. I subconsciously felt the need to get other's approval to feel comfortable.

I suppressed my thoughts, wants, and needs to please others. I lost self-respect when I disregarded my inner signals.

I never made decisions for myself. I relied on other's validation and approval to make decisions. I never thought for myself because I didn't value my thoughts much. I was losing self-confidence day by day.

I avoided social gatherings, parties, and family functions and spent time alone.

I ignored my poor social life until I joined college and decided to transform myself.

My college (IIT Kanpur)

I wanted to make the most out of my college life. I wanted real friends, a beautiful girlfriend and an extensive network.

I started by consuming resources on social skills from Twitter, Instagram, Books, Podcasts, and YouTube.

I knew I would only transform if I talked to many people. So, I spoke to many batchmates during college and applied the concepts I learnt.

With time, I became self-confident and self-respect. I learnt to have engaging and flowing conversations.

I expanded my network and made genuine friends within 2-3 months.

I worked on my seduction skills, which helped me start a romantic relationship with a girl.

I was in a relationship for the first time, which was fulfilling.

As I had many friends, I was often invited to go on trips, parties, outings, etc.

Me on a trip

I realised the real importance of social skills during the placement season of my college.

My extensive network opened many job opportunities for me that were only available to some batchmates.

My sharp social skills helped me clear job interviews, and I got a job at a tech giant.

I wanted to share my knowledge with those who need it.

'The Social Code' was born that day with a vision to help people make the most out of their personal and professional lives.

I wrote books on self-esteem (self-confidence and self-respect), conversations, seduction and basic social skills.

I proudly have helped thousands of people live a better social life through my books.

You can easily transform yourself into a socially skilled person with genuine friends, a beautiful girlfriend, an extensive network, a high-paying job, and a side business.

You can do it, too, but only if you act like I did.

With Love
The Social Code

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